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Oh Gosh! I Took Out A Loan For My Husband....What Have I Done?

 


Not gender-specific

Just like washing dishes is no longer gender-specific. Let's kick off by stating a fact! It isn't only women who have been known to take out loans on behalf of their beloved "belusted"(a word I coined) spouse. Men have done the very same too. 


Later on, I'll get into why I'm focusing on women in this post**. Now that we've got that out of the way, let's get to the meat of the matter.


Reasons Why Women Do It

  1. Empathy: the emotions of others, especially that of a spouse can easily affect a woman to the point of being caring just because.....because she fails to see it as people-pleasing. **one of the reasons why I'm focusing on women as I mentioned earlier**.
  2. Acceptance: a new relationship does all sorts of weird and wonderful things to a woman. Wanting to be accepted as a caring wife plays a big role in why you'll find yourself agreeing to such a huge ask.
  3. Fear: of being criticised or rejected as an unsupportive wife. Oh, that guilt trip a woman puts on herself is awful.

The Perfect Money Conversation



Welcome back to another post. I hope that you are doing really well. 

In today's message, I am going over a topic I have spoken about in the past but from a different angle.

It's useful whether you are in a heterosexual or same gender relationship. 

I have ten great questions you can ask and a bonus question too.


  1. Have you ever gone bankrupt in the past and how did this happen?
  2. Have you ever checked your credit score and if so, what has been your highest and lowest scores?
  3. How do you plan your financial future?
  4. Are you a risk taker when it comes to your money?
  5. What types of investment plans do you currently have?
  6. How many credit cards do you have and what are the balances on each of them?
  7. Do you have any outstanding loans including student loans?
  8. If you found yourself in a financial pothole, would you consider seeking help from a professional?
  9. Have you ever held a joint bank account with an ex, friend or family and if so, how well was it managed by all parties?
  10. Do you get angry or violent when loved ones tell you that you are being frivolous with your moneyAnd 1 final bonus question.

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Oh Gosh! I Took Out A Loan For My Husband....What Have I Done?

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