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A Valentines' Day Gift From My Abuser

Hello ladies, it's been such a while. Can I please ask you a few questions.  Does the title of this post ring mean anything to you? Have you ever been in a position like this before? Does the thought make you  cringe? Ever felt like throwing the gift out the window? Hush...meaning be patient. I want to address 1 very pressing question which may weigh heavily upon your heart just before Valentines Day. Should you accept a gift from him(your aggressor) on Valentines Day even though you hate the idea of it? This is my straightforward answer. Yes. Why? Your aggressor may be that man who wants to feel like every other 'normal' man out there. He wants to feel that he is being loving towards his spouse despite all the aggression that goes on behind closed doors. You and I know that if you refuse his gift, this could be a recipe for disaster. Another situation where he has ammunition to lash out may be the resulting outcome. You know he'll find another reason to loo