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Reconciliation After Domestic Violence

Obstacles

Hello there and how are you doing today? I hope quite well.

It seems that the older I have got, the more thinking I do. I wonder why? Did i never think when I was younger? Perhaps having more responsibilities in life force us to think a lot more. I don't know. Do you feel the same way?

Anyway,let's get on with todays' topic. So, whilst in my deepest thought, I took stock of the obstacles that I have had in life - and we have all had obstacles at one point or another.

A Valentines' Day Gift From My Abuser

Hello ladies, it's been such a while. Can I please ask you a few questions. 

Does the title of this post ring mean anything to you? Have you ever been in a position like this before? Does the thought make you cringe? Ever felt like throwing the gift out the window? Hush...meaning be patient.

I want to address 1 very pressing question which may weigh heavily upon your heart just before Valentines Day.

Should you accept a gift from him(your aggressor) on Valentines Day even though you hate the idea of it?

This is my straightforward answer. Yes. Why?

Your aggressor may be that man who wants to feel like every other 'normal' man out there. He wants to feel that he is being loving towards his spouse despite all the aggression that goes on behind closed doors.

You and I know that if you refuse his gift, this could be a recipe for disaster. Another situation where he has ammunition to lash out may be the resulting outcome. You know he'll find another reason to look for a reason to …

Money: The Root "Curse" of Domestic Violence

Hello peeps. I hope that you have been keeping well.

I would like to share with you details of my upcoming book called Money: The Root "Curse" of Domestic Violence.

The book is due to be released on 3rd April 2017.

You are cordially invited to pre-order your copy using either of these links. Please click here my US family and for my UK family


All I can say is that the feedback received about just the description and title of the book in the space of a few days has been super awesome.
As the author of the book, I can tell you that you will not be disappointed once you pick up your copy.
Thank you for your continued support.
Deborah

Determination

A very warm welcome to my website and this post.

So we are at the beginning of another promising year - and here I am sitting alone, wondering what lies ahead. 

One thing I know for certain is that I am determined to do well in all areas of my life - and I wish my readers the very same. 

Apart from my sheer obstinance in areas which I dare to mention, I am so determined NOT to procrastinate. If memory serves me well, minimising procrastination was one of my goals for 2015. I hope that my mentor(she knows who she is) will agree with me that I've done really well in this aspect of my life. I have some way to go yet, so let's see how things go, but remember, I am DETERMINED. 

Why not join me in the journey of determination.

Let me know in the comment box below what you'd like to do away with this year or introduce/reintroduce into your life - and it needn't be a goal per se. 

Until next time, be good and keep smiling.